In a culture that glorifies productivity and measures worth by output, choosing rest can feel rebellious. For mothers living with chronic illness, this rebellion isn't optional—it's survival.
The Lie We've Been Told
We've been conditioned to believe that rest is earned, not given. That stillness is laziness. That a good mother is a busy mother—always moving, always doing, always available.
But what happens when your body refuses to cooperate with these expectations? When MS fatigue settles in like an uninvited guest who won't leave? When the simple act of getting through the day requires every ounce of energy you have?
Reframing Rest as Holy
*"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."* — Matthew 11:28
Jesus didn't say "come to me after you've earned it." He didn't add conditions or prerequisites. He simply invited the weary—and in that invitation, rest became holy.
When we rest, we're not being lazy. We're trusting God to handle what we cannot. We're acknowledging our limitations and His limitlessness. We're choosing faith over fear.
Practical Ways to Embrace Rest
1. Release the guilt narrative. Your worth isn't measured by your productivity. Say it out loud if you need to.
2. Create rest rituals. Make rest intentional rather than accidental. A cup of tea, a soft blanket, a quiet moment with Scripture.
3. Communicate your needs. Help your family understand that rest isn't optional for you—it's medicine.
4. Celebrate small victories. You got through today. That's enough. You are enough.
A Prayer for the Resting Mother
Lord, help me release the shame that comes with rest. Remind me that You designed our bodies to need stillness. Give me the courage to honor my limitations and the faith to trust You with what I cannot do. In Jesus' name, Amen.
Rest isn't giving up. It's showing up for yourself so you can show up for your family. One moment at a time. One day at a time. One breath at a time.